Do you ever spend the night with your sd? What do you usually bring in your bag
Sometimes I do and when I do, I bring toiletries, lingerie, perfume, make up, accessories and so on.
Ladies please feel free to add on to the list.
Pepper spray, because you never know. I always brought everything I needed to get ready and took a shower, did my hair, put on makeup before he woke up. He would travel to me and we stayed in hotels so I felt the need to look my best at all times, plus I didn’t want to walk out the next morning looking like a messy walk of shame. For this reason also I would pack a cute but maybe more conservative outfit to wear on the way out.
If you are a sugar baby and want to get pissed off, go on SA, and in the member text search, type in “CNN” which will bring up many of the men who signed up thanks to CNN and it’ll make you want to swallow your own fist because this site couldn’t have gotten any worse in a matter of minutes.
Some of the highlights:
“If you’re looking for someone to pay off your tuition, I’m not the right person for you. If you’re looking for a relationship with someone that steers clear of monotony, enjoys travel, believes that life without laughter leaves something to be desired, and wants to eventually establish a family, then I’m your guy.”
“I’d love to know about your experiences on this site over a fantastic meal. My treat. No judgments and no expectations(except that you are open, honest and hungry) I will interview the fuck out of you, though!”
“My reality is, unless you could convince my brilliant and accomplished wife that I should be allowed to have a girlfriend, then I’ll probably never get to meet you.”
“No description. Just browsing site. May fill in later. What does it take to have an approved profile. Maybe there isn’t a way to get an approved profile and you have to upgrade to read email. isn’t like that. Why is this site like that? Hmmm, makes ya wonder.”
I LITERALLY CANNOTTTTTTTT
#loves yourselves babies
The fuckery is strong
Which one of you bitches is fucking for $30?
I wanna know too…damn.
Yoooo, we need to organize a massive, universal Splenda baby call out.
If you taking dick for $30 you need to get your ass out of the sugarbowl, because you’re polluting it for the rest of us. And don’t even go into escorting, cuz your prices are insulting to them as well.
Something tells me the dude is not telling the truth. Or maybe the girl was underage…
Who am I to judge?? But damn wtf y’all thinking. 30$ can not even buy a good pair of bra 😳😳😳That’s sad
Hi, I was wondering what you consider the appropriate way for a client to interact with an escort. Should things be kept business-like at all times or is a degree of familiarity ok?
Well I think it really depends on how often the client and the escort are seeing one another. If it is my first time seeing a client, I may choose to divulge things about myself in order to keep the conversation flowing smoothly. But what myself and other ladies dislike the most is when a new client comes in and starts playing 20 questions.
Do not ask “what’s your real name?” “are you married?” “do you have kids?” “if you have real job, where do you work?” All of these questions are way too invasive for a first date. It puts us off and makes us feel as though there may be some bad intentions behind it.
However, with any relationship, if a client continues with me through the course of time, it’s only natural that things would progress to a certain level of familiarity. Escorting is a business but at it’s core, there is an undeniably human element. So business cannot be simply business. I have a client I have known for almost three years now. He knows my real first name and other things about me. Likewise, I know a lot of information about him. It’s just the natural progression of things, if you lie about all these things, it’s very difficult to continue that lie for years. So it’s the path of least resistance to just learn about one another and be comfortable.
That is not to say the main element of the business should be breached. What I mean by that is, the underlying idea is that the client is paying for the escort’s time and company. Just because one is familiar with the lady does not mean he can suddenly stop paying her, she is still providing the same things she has always provided.
So do not say “hey, there’s this new sushi place, why don’t you come with me?” and intend to never pay her for this time. Some ladies will offer extra time during dates for long time clients but to ask her to do something for free is a surefire way to get her to stop seeing you.
Also, it is not appropriate to call or text to just chat about her life. Furthermore, she should not be calling you for favors like money advances, helping with household stuff, etc. That is a clear breakdown of the client/escort business relationship.
Sex Workers, language and slurs →
This is the same stuff I’ve said a lot in more posts than I can remember but I want to make a specific post about it since I get a lot of questions about these things and I want to add it to my resources page.
Prostitute is a Slur
Prostitute is a word that is used entirely to criminalize sex…
This fool done went and made dinner and hotel reservations for our first date…and they’re not even in the right state/city…. 😑